I really enjoyed reading your account I appreciate your time and honesty.
From a personal experience I feel that it is quite a challenge to find a partner (man or woman) who is secure and open with their sexuality. Whereas I am and have been for a long time ~ meeting and getting involved intimately (on any level) with someone is a mine field.
After years of insecurity regarding my (very) prominent labia minor/hood/clit...I am not so anxious about it. but getting intimate w/ somebody is quite another matter....but I am so horny and overall very sensual. Oh, this is one bizarre paradox...ect
Back to the point: I agree with Labi the conclusion to your anecdote is very well phased. Thank you so much.