Mussop
January 7, 2006
im 17..and really insecure about my large labia, i always was..and
used to think i was abnormal, until i saw a doctor ans she said
everything was fine..but by ex boyfriend didnt like them at all, and
use to say i was weird..it upset me alot, but i just use to shrug it
off.
now my new boyfriend is really nice, weve been goin out a
while, and i get the impression he doesnt like them either, he hasnt
gone down on me yet,which sorta says it all,and im gettin more
insecure as the days go by...do i confront him about my lips, and ask
his opinion? im just really shy,and its making me consider surgery
just to make life easier...
Dear Mussop,
Try to show him this site. Send him an email with a link and ask him to check it out. Then ask him if he thinks your labia are sexy or not. If he doesn't think so then show him the door. If he says he likes them but still doesn't give you what you desire, then call it quits also! Tell him calmly you can't be with someone who doesn't appreciate your well developed genitals, and that there are plenty of other guys who will enjoy them!
But whatever you do, do not have surgery just because you are too shy to confront your boyfriend. Work on your shyness instead, not on your genitals. Try to understand your shyness and then learn how to overcome it.