I personally love them long, thick, dark, and shaved. I don't think you need to do anything to your labia but love them for how much more womanly and sensual they make your pussy look. As for the hair. that is really up to you and possibly your partners. If I may make a suggestion though, Even though I personally love the look of a clean shave, and the feel of my partner's smooth pussy on my own clean shave. having your hair longer may make your labia appear smaller and help with your confidence.