just a little thank you & a little question

relieved

March 27, 2010

I just wanted to say thank god for this site. I'm 22 years old and a virgin and my friends are always surprised when they find out. People say I'm a pretty girl, but I've never been able to get close to anyone, never had a relationship. The reason? I have been extremely ashamed of my large labia minora for years. The idea of someone seeing me down there has always scared me. I always thought I looked disgusting and have cried many times over it. I can't talk about it with anyone, it's so embarrassing. I was actually looking into surgery for awhile but honestly, that scared the crap out of me, so I just continued to cry over it and believe I'd never have the confidence to be with anyone.

The worst part? I want to have sex! I want to get close to someone and share something special with them. I've been trying to put myself out there more and not run away when someone pays me attention... and I think this site has helped me. I don't think I'll be scared anymore. I'm actually a little excited. I met a nice young man the other day at work and actually look forward to getting to know him better now. I won't run away.

So... although it's been said before, just a little thank you :)

Also, I have a bit of an embarrassing question... I've only just recently began to give myself a brazillian (I only ever had bikini waxes because I wanted my pubic hair to cover and hide it)... and I noticed that my pubic hair goes well up into my butt cheeks. This just adds to my self-consciousness. I was going to wax it off because I don't like it, but is this disgusting to men?

Dear relieved,

That's great news. No more crying over your sexy pussy. Keep up that confidence and you're bound to experience some great sex. If not with that new guy at least with yourself, because now you can look in the mirror and like what you see.

About that hair between your butt cheeks. Well, some men actually love it but I'm quite sure a large majority prefers no hair on their girl's ass, so it's safer to get rid of it for now. For me it's actually a bit of a letdown when I meet a new girl and she has butt hair. I don't mind to find out later on that it grows that far, but the first time we go at it I want a shiny, super clean ass crack because my hands and mouth know no borders when it comes to sex. And of course my jaw will be smoothly shaven as well, because I can imagine how beard stubbles irritate the hell out of her down there.

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Jessica

March 27, 2010

Hi relieved,
I'm glad you got over your irrational fear.
About the hair between your butt cheeks, I have it too. It is normal and common despite the popular belief (thanks to unrealistic porn stars again). In fact I had the same worries and upon some research found that many women have hairy butt cracks and butt-holes and I bet many more have it and they don't know since they haven't inspected their butt cracks.

That being said, as common as it is, I still suggest you to get rid of it since, as Labi said, men don't always want natural women. (I bet if they wax their butt-cracks once they'll change their mind :p)
waxing hurts too much for me. I shave it but unfortunately it itches as hell when it grows back and I get rashes.
I hope you're going to have a better experience and be careful not to cut yourself!

slave to my mistress

March 28, 2010

Wax it off, or better yet, have somebody shave it off for you. I am sure that you would get a lot of volunteers (men & women) who would be more than willing to do this on this website. I certainly would.

Ann

March 28, 2010

Hello relieved

Good to hear that this site has helped you!
Being bi-sexual I thought I could also answer your quistion regarding the waxing. I think that if you choose to wax you should also remove the hair from the ass (by the way that hair i compleately normal). There is nothing wrong with being hairy if you ask me but if you remove the hair on the pyssy I think it looks much better to also remove it from the ass. After removing the hair you should take a good look and see how sexy it really looks with full/long labia and no hair!

NADINE

March 29, 2010

hello Ann, Relieved and Jessica

I am bi sexiual too and sometimes i prefer having a hairy pussy to play with. There are other times where i prefer a very smooth hairless pussy and butt crack. please check THE ABBYWINTERS.COM site for pics to see how sexy hairy pussy can be.

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respi-ration

March 29, 2010

Ho.. Sweet...

as built you are, as beauty is... hair? no hair?? ashamed by the size of lips??

what for?? more i read letters on this site, more i am convince that fashion ; mode pictures, présentation of water sportwear and body charming underwear are responsible of all these drama thoughts...

how you are it's a gold place to be find... after it's your will which is decideing how you want to " present' your intim part...

but never be ashamed by .. think you are rich to be built as you are... be proud to be different...

Each woman is different, is unic, is an exception.. as men are...

sex size, shape, long, and so on...

the most important is to respect whom you are : if your partner idoesn't have the love glance to you... don't stay..

body is just a garden full of flowers beauties... breath!!! beath!!! each time some thing new is appering from you : allow to to be for you.. not for the other..

body is a way to enjoy life.. find some one whom will have the need and feeling to share these fantastic moments of being flying in even...

best regards

respi - ration

relieved

March 30, 2010

Thanks so much everyone, especially those women who have it as well, I feel much better knowing that it's normal!

It's a bit funny when you think how freaked out you were about it and how alone you felt, and then when you find out it's ok and other people have it too - instant relief.

Not looking forward to it itching when it grows back again... but I'll definitely go out and get myself some gentle wax soon! :)

tempest_driver

March 30, 2010

Very happy to see that you find your pussy sexy now. Now maybe you can begin to enjoy it.

On the subject of waxing, you should do what you need to do so that YOU think you look sexy. Once you've done that, a man who feels the same will find you.

XOXO t_d

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