Pinky, I'm glad that you decided to join us, it sounds as if your
fiancÚ does in fact like your labia, but is uncomfortable talking
about such things with you. He's going to have to get over this if
the two are to be married. just as you're going to have to get over
this ridiculous modesty.
He's staring at your labia, that tells me that he's interested in them. they may be the first like yours he's ever seen and he just wants a closer look. And when he spreads your legs, just close your eyes, take a deep breath, and go for it.
If you're that ashamed of your labia, I'll guess he's never gone down on you. I really think you should do this> having him go down on you would settle once and for all if he likes your labia. If he doesn't want to, well what man wouldn't want to? we'll burn that bridge if we get to it. If he goes down on you and really makes a good and proper snack out of your pussy, then he's obviously into your labia, problem solved.
It's kind of like tearing off a band aid. you don't want to do it, but if you just take a deep breath and yank it off, it will be a lot better in the end. But I really encourage you to get this sorted out. the survival of your upcoming marriage could depend on it.
good luck t_d