K,
My wife had the same issue when we first starting having
sex. . .she couldn't come from sex.
She loved (and still
loves) my oral. . .I make her come EVERY time we have sex, and she
sits there quivering for a few minutes after her orgasm, before she's
ready to take my cock inside her.
But, what I've found with
her (we recently discovered she's a "squirter") is that doggy style
works best -- it stimulates her g-spot, and when I go slow (long,
deep thrusts), rather than fast, rabbit like thrusts, it stimulates
her more, and she eventually blows another 2-3 times while we have
sex like that.
We've tried variations on this too, including
her legs closed in doggy style (her legs on the inside, mine
outside), and her legs open (my legs inside, hers outside).
She enjoys it MOST with her legs inside (her legs closed).
She told me that reason is that my balls smack her clit, while my
cock touches her g-spot inside.
I know she's right because
she usually blows about 2-3 more times from sex after I make her come
orally first.
Usually she squirts too. . .she says she can't
squirt from oral, but she squirts almost every time we have sex
(which I think it very sexy!).
She's also been able to
come/squirt when she's on top in reverse cowgirl.
I keep my
legs open, and she closes her legs, and literally just bounces up and
down on my cock -- the unfortunate problem with this position is that
it feels so damn good, I usually beat her to the punch and come
before she does!
Just so you know the exact details, my
wife's pussy resembles this one:
www.sexylabia.com/pic40_flappy-cunt-lips.htm
She's 5'7" and weighs about 140 or so.
She has a nice
big ass, in addition to a sexy pussy and beautiful labia (I can't
resist a nice ass. . .it's like my Achilles' heel)
I am 6'0"
and weight 225 lbs.
My cock is 8" or so, and is pretty thick
in circumference (she says that's what does it).
So just
thought I'd share that with you.
Now you can try to match
yourself up right with your next sexual partner and if he can't give
it to you sexually, then maybe you should tell him to give it to you
orally. Either way, you end up a happy camper after all is said
and done! =0)
- Eric