Amy, you have discovered the secret. All the BS you've been fed about what is "normal" or what is some person's idea of beauty, is quite simply false. Women come in all sizes and shapes, and every single one of them is beautiful. Your lovers, particularly including your current boyfriend, have proven the value of upir labia, and how much pleasure can be derived from them. I am deeply pleased that you have come to appreciate them to the point of becoming interested in shaving and showing off your beautiful labia. It is just that kind of confidence that makes a woman even more sexually exciting.