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You have obviously been involved with the wrong men.  Surely, the commentors here prove to you just how valuable, just how enticing, your larger labia is.  Once you get past dating immature men, and get on to those who are mentally more mature, you will find that your lips and your pussy are greatly appreciated.  I urge you to wait regarding the surgery, since once you discover the value of your lips, you will be very deeply appreciative of them.  Just read the notes on here from some of the women who are confident about themselves, and make good use of their blessings.  If you have those beautiful lips removed, I promise you will live to regret it.  They are an intrinsic part of you that would then be gone forever.

How old are you? If he doesn't love all of you f*** him! Sorry!

I don't know how supportive your male "friends" are if they're telling you obviously things that are wrong, and blatantly incorrect.

I think it might be that time to re-evaluate the people who you associate with and also re-evaluate just how much their opinions actually mean to you.

Also, don't get back with that guy if he's being a fool about it, and cracking jokes in front of other people about experiences you and he share.

I think I was immature like that too way back in the day, but I NEVER and I do mean NEVER cracked jokes about any of the women I've been with in public with mutual friends we shared.

He's a bonehead.  Find someone new.  You deserve it. =0)

- Eric

That guy is obviously immature and rude! If a man is more mature & experienced he would know how great large labia are. When i was younger i wasn't too happy with my labia either but now i love them and would never have surgery to change them. Many men love to play & suck on large labia!

I think that jackie expresses the experience of many women in her comments here.  I find that many, many women are insecure about the appearance of their pussy, their labia, at early ages when they are just beginning to get involved in sex, and, of course, doing so with young boys who are quite immature and make stupid comments about something they haven't seen before.  As the women themselves mature, they come to appreciate the beauty of their labia, and the men also come to appreciate them more and more, as they learn more and more about them.  It all just seems to be the normal course of events.  Jackie has obviously come to appreciate the beauty and the value of her larger labia, and the pleasure that comes with them.  Congratulations!

Thanks for all these comments, It's really boosting my confidence. I've only been with one guy so i have no other experiences to compare him too, but all my friends have partners that would never humiliate them the way my man did.
I really wish I could love how I look but i don't think until i get this surgery i will :( .. When i hear myself say it, i can't believe how pathetic i sound. And I'm also aware it's a procedure that shouldn't be done under vanity or insecurity but what my ex said has just really got to me. I think i have a little maturing to do before i should get the surgery, im worrying about stupid things like films that include jokes about labia's and what men think. When really i should be apreciating my body. I realise i shouldn't be bothered by what others think but i just am + thanks Jackie i hope one day i'll be thinking like you (:
Thanks again people it's really helped xx

I would just wait until you make a final decision about surgery..believe me i felt the same way you did when i was younger. But now i realize that i am happy with my body and if someone truly cares about me that they will love me how i am. Don't let him get to you, he is a jerk! :) hope you feel a bit better!

H, Jackie is absolutely right.  Get some more opinions, from some mentally mature men before you do anything so drastic as labiaplasty.  I promise you that those lips are a true gift.  Check out what Meatylips has to say in her comments in a July comment on here.  You have a great gift, as do Jackie and Meatylips.  All that needs to happen is for you to learn how valuable it is, how beautiful it is, and come to enjoy it.

Hi H
It really concernes me to hear that you consider to go back to that jerk and that you wanna have the surgery so that him and guys like him would like you better. Out of the huge bunch of guys I have slept with one guy made a terrible remark to me that he thought that I needed surgery (but rest of them seemed to really like my pussy). I told him no way but after breaking up I started getting more and more insecure and started consider surgery. But the reason why I never did it is because then that jerk would have a power over me and deside how my body should look like -no way!! You should never go back to a guy who is that stupid. How on earth should he deserve you when so many other guys would die to be with a girl with large labia like you??!!! Fuck him!!
Anyways, would you really feel good having possitive comments about your pussy after surgery and at the same time knowing that the guy only likes it after surgery?? I know that I wouldn´t -rather I would feel really offented!
After vissiting this webside I feel very confident about my large labia and I really hope, that the same will happen to you.
Anyways you say that you have only been with one guy? Go meet some other guys and you will find out how sexy it is to most guys.