Labia Love

Usually if you're a bit chubbier your labia is a bit bigger - well that's what i've noticed :)

My girlfriend is typically asian - small and petite however, if my girlfriend was chubby or overweight it wouldn't make a difference - it's all about wanting each other and enjoying what you have.

Regards,

Noodles

Bad esteem girl,  There are entire sections of the porn industry devoted to "chubby" or larger women.  There's a reason for that.  There's a large population of both men and women who appreciate a larger body size.  As to the correlation between body size and labia size, I don't believe that there actually is one.  It's much more of an individual thing.  I hope you are learning to appreciate your own labia, and that you learn to truly enjoy them.

It's no different.

Women "wear" their weight differently.

Also, most women have a "warped" sense of what is "chubby".

For example, most women want to weigh less than 150 lbs according to a study done recently, but on a tall woman (5' 7" or taller), 150 lbs would be unattractive to me, since she would appear to be too skinny.

Yet, I know a woman who is 5' 1" tall, and she "wears" 150 lbs pretty sexy in my opinion. =0)

Just my two cents. . .

Well I was talking about my labia minora actually. Obviously if a girl is chubby/fat the majora is going to be a tad chubby too.

And as for there being entire sections of the porn industry devoted to chubby/fat ladies, that provides little encouragement. I'm all about fetishes, but I don't want my body size to be a fetish thing. I want my future bf/husband to love me whether I'm size 10 or a size 18.  

I was merely commenting that it's hard to conclude if my asymmytrical (one side is large, one petite) labia are still desired as I'm a size 18 girl and I never see girls my size with different sized labia minora. Though I suppose if there are enough of you guys who love large labia on the skinny gals I would have to assume that guys will love large labia on girls no matter the size of body.  

Honestly I have to say I still have a hard time believing I'm sexy down there. Perhaps the fact I'm still a virgin doesn't help but even after reading tons of letters here I still would very much like to have surgery done on my one lip. The pictures on this site give me little confidence since they are all of extremely skinny and beautiful women. Of course a man is going to look past large labia if the woman is crazy beautiful.

Personally, ive noticed that it seems like most people with large labia are petite. Obviously its going to vary. But seems like a lot of girls who post on here say they have a small build and large labia...

Well it is kind of up to you to feel confident and sexy about yourself. You obviously know that large labia isn't a strange thing and that men and women both love the larger labia.

As you're still a virgin it certainly sounds like you're jumping the gun a bit on this issue. Just relax and enjoy dating.

If you find it hard to feel confident about yourself or even if you find it hard to relax, don't force the issue just be cool - these things tend to unfold in their own time.

Hope I haven't missed the point!!!

Regards,

Noodles

Well, I'm asian and have large labia.
I feel like I'm the only one. (?)
Also....I agree with that chubby girls dont usually have large labia.
I have NEVEr heard of a chubby girl with large labia...

Errr. . . to you women saying chubby or fat chicks don't have large labia that is a blatent lie. I'm chubby and I have, and I'm sure I'm not the only one. And in response to K; I'm sure most fat girls don't really like to post "well I'm a fat girl and have large labia" so of course it would seem it's only petite/slim ladies that have them. Most bigger girls I've met don't usually like to attract attention to themselves or their size if they don't have to. Especially on the internet where people tear you apart if you aren't skinny enough.

Anyways, thank you Noodles for your replies. You are probably right, I'm probably worrying over nothing. Of course, it'd help if I could actually get dates and what not to help my esteem, but meh. I suppose it will all come. Thanks again for your sincere answers. :D

I have large labia and I am not petite
I am 5ft 7 and would say I am med to large build, curvy and womanly