HELP! I've got BIG lips, but my BF won't go near them

Sweetie Pie,  I have heard about a very few individuals who just have a phobia about oral sex, and some of them just can't get past that phobia.  I have never heard about someone who has a phobia about manual stimulation, however.   It sounds like your boyfriend has some serious problems.  Just be assured that the problems are his, not yours, and have nothing to do with the appearance of your pussy or the size of your lips.  His statement that he's willing to take "baby steps" is at least a sign of willingness to try things, but WOW!!  He's hard to believe.  Since you love him so much, perhaps you should make the effort to try to educate him, lead him in the direction which you want to go.  Otherwise, there are millions who would love to spend some time with you, and show you how much your pussy is appreciated and admired, how much pleasure it could give to you and to your lovers.

hey sweetie pie,
happy to hear you are ok with your lips. i hope you love them and find a lover to love them. and....
do you know for a fact what his reluctance is?
how old is he? how many lovers has he had? is he well read?
does he really like pussy? the taste and so forth?
getting the open and honest communication will tell all.
please don't be satisfied with having to turn your thinking and speculator on.
a man that speaks will let you know what you really have.
i had a "perfect car" once except .....no wheels.
see patti taylor sex book for communication.
expandedlovemaking.com
good luck -b

I myself is very sensitive to smell. My ex girl friend had for some months when I met here always a smell of urine. She was very hygienic but still, the smell was there. Then after she ate antibiotics she smelled so fresh, beautiful and tasted so wonderful. Of coourse this is easy for you to check. It is just a tip.  
Then it could of course bee that your boyfriend: either is inexperienced and do not know how and what to do, he may be shy, he may be simply insecure and is afraid that you think he is sex maniac if he licks you, or that he is going to fast. Or he may have some other issue, thinking it is not normal to lick his girlfriend. But it is entirely normal. Show him this website for instance! Good luck and tace care

I'm thinking that maybe he's young or inexperienced, or both.

I'm kind of shocked to be honest, but in my opinion you have two choices here:

1) Train him, and gradually ease him into it, until you both can get equally satisfaction from your sexual encounters.

2) Dump him, and move onto another man who will likely accept you as is, and will make you explode in ecstasy many times over.

At the end of the day, I'm happy that you're happy with your lips, and I think you've handled things well up to this point -- I'd even venture to say you've "tolerated" things well up to this point. =0)

- Eric

Sweetie, based on my experiences the men that start out with anything other than adoration or willingness to explore fleshy flowers do not make a good match with a woman that finds much pleasure in oral stimulation. In short, you may very well be hiting your head against the wall over, ...and over, and.... I will go furthur in advising that you not settle until you find a man that does like to give oral sex...based on the fact that the lack thereof led you here. I'd be happy to give you an 'earful' if you would like to e-mail me. Life is short, girl--too short!