pussy is too big?

Anna, there is no such thing as too big, any more than there is a cock that is too big.  You are so fortunate to have lovely large labia, and also I must assume you are talking about your clit (the part above the labia).  As you can tell from reading the comments on this site, and looking at the photos, not only do many women have larger, thicker labia, it is a true blessing to them.  There are so many women who have commented on here, as you have, worried about the size of their labia, and then with a little education they come to understand what  a true blessing it all is, and how sexy they appear to their lovers.  The very bulge in your panties that you mention is extremely attractive to most men, or women who love women.  Once confidence is gained, you are able to enjoy some truly amazing sexual experiences, which are enabled by your larger labia.  Check this site out thoroughly before you decide to do anything so foolish as to have surgery.  You would be losing one of the very best parts of yourself forever, and paying dearly for the privilege.

Hey Anna,

I'm sorry to hear that our society has forced you into thinking you have to conform to social standards. . .

However, if I were you, I'd wait until after your first sexual experience at least to make a decision, since I'm pretty sure whoever the lucky guy is will establish for you that you have nothing to be concerned with.  He probably will love your cooch just the way it is.

In any case, not that a man should be helping you to define who you are, and what makes you beautiful, but I'd wait.

After all, you said you weren't sure what to do -- and when you're not sure about what to do, usually the best thing to do is to do absolutely nothing until your absolutely sure about what you want to do in the first place. =0)

Also, I think the part you're talking about is the "mons pubis" which is the part of your genital region where hair grows mostly.  There is nothing wrong with that being a large either, just in case you're wondering.

All women's genitals, just like all men's genitals are as unique as faces in that everyone's looks slightly different, and there aren't really any two that are the same.  Maybe you can find two that are "alike" in the way they look, but like a face, not EXACTLY the same if you know what I mean.  Even identical twins have slight differences in their faces.

Oh well, just my two cents. . .and again, hold off on that surgery, because the part that's "noticeable in panties" between your legs is sexy to most men -- you just don't know it yet.

So keep your cool, and get some more feedback -- do some more research, until you find what resonates with you.

I'd even recommend waiting until after your first sexual partner (since you'll see that most men don't care about what it looks like, but mostly how it feels, tastes, and smells).

Feel free to roam this site, as you'll find plenty of women on here just like you who were in doubt at first until myself, and other men came to let them know, they were mistaken about what they thought might be sexy -- I'd even say we've helped stopped some women and girls who were considering a surgery to correct something that was already perfect in the first place.

Take your time, and think it through. . .there's no rush. =0)

- Eric

pls send me photos of the 'disturbing' parts and let me the judge.

Alonzo is right. You may think it is too big because maybe your girlfriends have smaller ones or none showing at all.

But in reality i'm sure they're fine and most appealing.

Send some photos and you'll get our response.

Regards,

Noodles

I think the part that she is referring to above the labia is the clitoral hood. Mine is large also, and i think the size of the clitoral hood, has alot to do with the size of a bulge in panties/bathing suits, etc.

I, personally, would agree with Mr. Marquis.  Please put any type of surgery out of your thoughts, as Mr. Marquis put it, would be taking one of your best assets God has blessed you with.  Your lovely labia   is truly a gift... Continue to read what other have to say here....

K, I agree with you.  I'm sure what Anna's concerned about is her clit and it's hood.  That specific body part often does make a bulge in panties, or a bathing suit.  The thing you ladies need to understand is that men absolutely love that, and find it extremely attractive and stimulating.

Dear Anna
It is only beautiful! I understand that you do not want others to see.
Please read some other womens messages and stories here. And also mens. Of course you may choode pants that do not fit so tight inbetween as to show any details. But I can assure you that soon you will not care about what others think. Usually it is jealous people who would drop a comment, immature people.
Someone mature will always appreciate you for YOU! Not try to change you in any way. This said, of course we mature and learn from others, all people we meet we could learn something from. If it is a really mean person, we can lern never to become like them, a nice generous person will share knowledge, friendship, energy.  
When I was 16 my girlfriend had large labias. My girlfriend when I was 18 almost none at all. I loved them booth, they were booth very very sexy, not the least from their way of beeing.
We always made surprises for each others, pack the pick nick basket and go to a lake and make love all day.... One girl friends father remarked that I was red-brown on my back while she had got no sun tan at all. Hmmmm. I guess I was on top of her more that I should have.
Dear Anna. I am sure that you are very very beautiful as you are.
Please do think thrice before any operation. I would never recommend a woman to do that. We love you however you are!