embarassed!

halo

May 12, 2009

I'm a 15 year old girl who is eager to get into sexual relationships, I'm with this one guy now who is ready to get physical but i'm too scared because of my large labia! I'm afraid he's never been with someone like me and that he'll be grossed out, worse of all, i'm afraid of him starting rumors about me around school saying i have a messed up vagina! I don't know what to do, all my friends have been fingered and such but i'm too afraid my highschool life will be hell if a guy spreads a bad story about me. Are big labias common? or am I probably the only one out of my friends who has one!?

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Shawna

May 13, 2009

I was in the exact same situation as you, and because of it I waited until i was 17 and with my current boyfriend for 3 months. Im 19 now (just turned) and since me and him seperated the last time I have "gotten around" I guess you could say. So far none of the guys I have been with have said anything bad. Most, if not all, didnt care. I freaked myself out over nothing it seemed. But, I have stuck with older more experienced boys. Some men. My first, and current boyfriend had only been with 2 other girls before me. My vagina was the first he had actually ever saw except for in porn. He was 16 (hes a month younger than me and i lost it right after my 17th bday). He LOVES it. This other guy i was seeing, Biggest whore ever, but when i asked him about it, he told me that he has seen many shapes and sizes, no 2 pussies are ever the same, and than he went as far as to tell me i was the best looking girl, with the best, most breathtaking body he had ever seen or been with. That poor boy, sadly to say, fell in love with me. I unfortunatly couldnt meet his feelings, He is still currently my best friend.  

Sorry for the story there hahah my point is that there is nothing wrong with waiting. The more mature and older the guy the easier it will be. Younger guys tend to be more immature and inexperienced. You could always do it with your panties on. Maybe give him hints ahead of time. and really, if he does go as far as to make rumors about you (which isnt likely) your better off without him, and chances are someone is going to hear about it and admire it. there are many many MANY long labia lovers out there. You would be very surprised my dear. In the 2 years that i have been sexually active, as scary as it was at first, i have grown to LOVE it. it may still look funny to me. but if my man loves it, and the guys ive been with like it, than what reason do i have to be unhappy about it? Just like you :) be happy with what you got. it could always be a whoooole lot worse.

The Marquis

May 13, 2009

Shawna, well said.  I couldn't agree more with what you recommend to halo, and your views on more mature partners.  The simple fact is that men and boys love pussy.  Any pussy.  More than that, one with larger lips appears to be excited and more sexual, making the attraction even greater.  You two are very blessed to have large, lovely labia.  Enjoy them.

Britney

May 17, 2009

I hate to say this, but there are always going to be the occasional uneducated jerks who think that large labia are abnormal. I do hope you don't come across any though. Most guys like any kind of vagina though, really. I was just like you before I became sexually active. I have now been having sex with my boyfriend for two years, and he loves my vagina.

Eric

May 18, 2009

Shawna,

I'm really amazed at how you've grown, since our last conversation.

You rock!

You're a woman that I now see as confident, collected, and best of all you know who you are it seems.

I'm happy about that! =0)

- Eric

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