Long Labia and Going for Surgery need your opinion

Angelina

February 18, 2009

Hi everyone I am 21, gorgeous and love sex but feel my labia make me reserved in bed like I don't want to spread my legs open or get into certain positions.  And when I am turned on they get even bigger and really wet.  I've never had an orgasm from sex or oral and I think it may be b/c I am worrying about my labia the whole time. I really don't care what men think about it it's the fact that I am paranoid that they've never seen ones like mine or can tell I am uncomfortable about it.  When I found this site I was shocked to see how beautiful long labia are especially on models it just excentuates their perfect bodies even more.  Really makes me want to be with one of them but as much as I want to try what it's like to be with a woman I know I could never do it because the majority of women do not have long thick labia.   However I am going for surgery (labiaplasty) this summer in NYC it will cost me $4000.  I've arranged to get as much as possible removed.  Please write your opinions and I may be willing to send photos of me before I get chopped up.  I would really like to show someone what they look like and get an opinion.

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Mr Salesmanship

February 19, 2009

Study this site, read the letters of other's

PLEASE DON'T MAKE A MISTAKE - SO BIG !

Don Reginaldo

February 19, 2009

Oh Dear Angelina,

How can I bring you off this horrible mutilation, please, please keep them on!

If you have pretty face, a firm body, you just need to believe how lucky you are to accept your in all details.  

Believe me boys concentrate on you as a Whole Woman, the meaning is the owner of a pussy.  

Of course I am large labia worshipper, but would make love to the entire body. If your are self-confident and satisfied enough no comment could demolish that!    

Spend this huge amount on a Holyday, and just relax! Change your mind but not your.  


Thank you, with love :  

Don_R


P.S.: I am convinced that, those  after  photos won't have been taken :-)

Barry Dyver

February 19, 2009

Hello Angelina
After reading your letter, I am convinced that the simple (and cheaper) solution to your problem is to adopt the right mental attitude to your beautiful endowment. As you browse through this site, haven't u seen labia which may be larger than yours? The benefit of this site, is that it has empowered women to feel proud of their lips, and to help them to get rid of any feelings of shame, inferiority and self-consciousness. You also would have read testimonies of men, like myself, who have a distinct preference for LARGE labia. I am convinced that, once you learn to like and accept yourself as you are, you will be more relaxed in bed, you will now feel more comfortable to spread your legs, it will now be easier to achieve orgasms, as men, like myself, give our undivided attention to those beautiful, large, wet labia of yours. You will also be richer by $4,000.00.  It would be a pleasure to hear from u. Feel free to write me at my e-mail address provided for u.  
Cheers
Barry the Dyver

London

February 19, 2009

I'd urge you to think twice before going to have the surgery. As you've said you can see from this site how natural and sexy large lips are.  Remember that as you're getting used to the idea of having large lips, once you've got rid of them you may regret it forever, and you'll never be able to get them back.  For the men and women out there who love large lips - keep them! I'd be happy to put your mind at ease some more. just let me know :)

anonymous

February 19, 2009

Don't do it, Darling!

Don't send photos around, and don't get surgery.  The problem is psychological.  You've got to learn how to accept and respect yourself as you are.  If you don't know how to do that, no surgery will help you feel better.

Why do you feel you owe it to anyone to be anything other than what you are?  Some therapy would help.

plump pussy

February 19, 2009

Have you not taken the time to read ANY of the guest letters. You will be making a huge mistake. Stop being so uncomfotrable with yourself and you will orgasm. If you have them cut you will lose so much sensetivity, and believe me more women have large lips than you think. You are 21 yrs old, give yourself a little more time to think this through please.

Louise

February 19, 2009

Hey young lady,
I'm 45 and have generally had issues about my large labia for many years!!! However Its never stopped me enjoying sex (have always loved it!!) and has never stopped me from having boyfriends...long relationships...2 kids!!
What I have realised in my time is that men are never really bothered too much by what a pussy looks like, they are usually just happy to get some!! and are generally much more accepting of the differances that exsist it pussy shapes and sizes than perhaps girls are....funny that eh???  In fact guys can often love a meaty pair of lips - as you have probably learnt from this site or are still learning!!  
I nearly had surgery a few yrs ago and to be honest still wish, or more to the point want to experience, hidden lips!! but in reality its bullshit!!! because its about being squashed into a sterio type thats not a reality. Being accepted, more sexy, more appealing to men because of what your pussy looks like??? Thats crazy eh??? when many guys dont give a shit and as I said before often really like big lips!!  
So a question to you... you will be cutting yourself for what?? and for who??  
If you wanna talk some more bout things email me or answer this reply I and I think many others would like to know your thoughts on what I have written??
Louise. XX

Mr Salesmanship

February 20, 2009

You sure got replies dear, question is, are you going to take any notice of them ?

Angelina

February 20, 2009

Wow I am very surprised to see people actually answered me.  Thank you everyone for your encouraging words.  I could probably orgasm with a man who specifically had a large lip fetish but in reality not all men find it a turn on.  It's as if I would need to be told how much they like it before or during the deed in order to feel 100% comfortable.  I had this one night-stand not long ago with a professional hockey player and all he wanted to do was go down on me.  He literally tried for at least an hour and a half the whole time telling me how good I tasted and that not even being enough,  I just got really numb and had to stop.   Wow probably do need therapy.  Plus I forgot to mention I wear a lot of tight clothing and when in a bikini I feel like my camel toe is visibly prominent.  Tight jeans squish it the most resulting in painful discomfort and mild discharge from the friction.  I don't know what to say guys.  I sort of wish I could keep the sucker but I think deep down we know what's best for me,  both mentally and physically.

Mr Salesmanship

February 20, 2009

How much more convincing do you need ?

Barry Dyver

February 20, 2009

Hello Angelina
Could u do me a favour? Before you have your surgery, would u allow me only ONE opportunity to much, lick and suck those beautiful labia of yours? Because, after your surgery, I will have absolutely no inclination, no inspiration, no motivation whatsoever, to go down on you. End of story
Barry the pussydyver

Lauren

February 20, 2009

I'm only 18 years old and came across this site with the same discomforts you have. It's mainly about me being worried guys haven't seen long labia before. I have thought about getting surgery, but at the moment i've decided against it. My biggest turn on is having my labia touched and if they're tucked in they can't be touched anymore. With my first boyfriend I had trouble orgasming too because I was worried, but eventually I realized he didn't care and let go and now with my second boyfriend I can orgasm without any problem. It's true that not all guys love them, but who cares? Not all guys love short girls or big boobs...Guys all like different things. It's a natural part of your body and it's NORMAL. I know I'm younger than you, but you're still young too...I think you should take more time to think about the surgery. It'll change your body for good and if you miss them it'll be too late. I think both of us should just accept ourselves for who we are...

The Marquis

February 23, 2009

Angelina and Lauren,
You both should go and get your long lovely lips pierced, use them, celebrate them.  Make them a primary part of your sexuality.  They are a fabulously sexy part of your body.  Only men who are inexperienced, or uninformed, would not love to be with you.  Give it a try.  Show confidence in yourself and in your beautiful body.  The men who are not attracted by such a display are not worth attracting.  Give it a try before you spend the money to have those beautiful things clipped off.

Mr Salesmanship

February 25, 2009

You obviously would have breast surgery instead of wearing the correct bra size ?????   Which man as not had to make these ajustments, spend your money on bespoke clothes not the silly knife, you won't alway's follow fashion' and "gone" is for alway's

Think about it Kid

Frank Lyons

April 23, 2009

I request that you reconsider your decision to mutilate yourself from beautiful to boring.  I have viewed the before & after shots on many of these "surgeons" (opportunists) websites and am appalled at the outcomes (petals of labia reduced to ugly stubs of their former beauty).  Consider this, would Angelina  Jolie be as beautiful (and famous) if she had a lip reduction to make her lips thin?  Please read my post from January 2009 for additional perspective.  I hope my comments provide you with the strength and confidence to be proud of your body.

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