im scared to lose my virginity because of it

Dear Sunny :-)

I had sex with my first boyfriend when I was at about the same age as you, and I thought alot about it aswell... What will he think? Would he prefer that my pussy were more like the ones we know from magazines etc.  
My only advice for you is that you wait until you really know eachother, and that you feel secure with him and really trust him!  Then it won't be a problem... I haven't told any of the guys that I've been with through the years that I have a little bit more than they might expect in my panties. If you let him use his fingers at first, he will feel it before he sees it... And I think that is the best way :-) I don't think you should make a big deal about it... You are completely normal. And I've never had any guy telling me they don't like my pussy... In fact they have loved it:-)

Remember; sex is supposed to feel good, so be sure you are ready, and don't think alot about how it would be the first time... Sometimes the first time (even if it's just with a new partner) it's not always the best. But the good thing is, that you have time to improve it, and it will get even better:-)

I'm pretty sure he will love your pussy & your lips! I hated mine as you do, but my boyfriends have made me realize that they are AMAZING:-)  
Good luck...

Oh Dear Sunny,  

You are multiplied-lucky,  - you have a boyfriend - moreover you are in love with and you have something unique down there

At first you should separate your fear: You worry both of loosing your virginity, and both of the appearance of your yoni. They concerning, but two different issues.  

If you can't accept   or even try to love - your labia, you will just get rid of your virginity.  
Relax you have time enough, just let him closer, love is active, loves in process, that need to be done, therefore have the English a phrase : to make love,  

So trust him, he must be curious, , shave your pussy clean! put on a sexy tight or see-through lingerie that prefigures your lips, let him feel you down there - than tell him what is behind. After that everything must be perfect,

Be Brave, : D

Dear Sunny,
Sex isn't dirty or something you should feel ashamed about. Your body is beautiful. You are beautiful. Would you like to get a good self-esteem boost? Go to any bingo hall and take a look at all the different women who are there. Most of them have raised children and lived happy lives with men who loved them.
Those women all have different shapes. Those women represent what most women look like, (or what will look like). None of them are perfect, no one is. Yet, at one time or another, someone loved them. I hope that you find someone who will love you for what you are inside, not for what you look like outside.