Terrifed that my enormous bulging pussy will disgust a potential lover

Annie

August 4, 2008

I am in my late 40's and haven't had a boyfriend for several years. I am scared to death of starting to date again because of what will happen when I finally am naked with somone. Although I love my body in general, and work out regularly, it's the size of my external size of my pussy (labia majora and minora) that I am embarrassed about. It is even larger than any of the pictures you have on your site. Just flat out enormous and bulging, to the point that I don't even like wearing leggings because it looks almost like I have a male 'package' there. I lubricate easily and can orgasm easily, keep very clean, and have brazillian waxes done, but it is just ugly to me. I am afraid to have surgery, because I don't want to lose sensation at all. I just don't know what to do - how to approach it with someone. I'm so scared it will turn them off and they won't say anything - they just won't want to sleep with me again. None of my past lovers has ever said anything, but I'm still humiliated. My pussy looks nothing like the women in Playboy - and Playboy's idea of a 'big' vagina is about 1/4 the size of mine outside.
Please help. I know appearance is important to men 'down there'. I've read comments about 'meat curtains' and it just made me cringe.

Replies

Sarah

August 6, 2008

Hi Annie

I am the exact same way, and feel the same about surgery. The girls don't even seem to compare to me and I feel it would be very hard to just get naked in front of a guy. I am in my 20's and am a very thin girl so I always think they are expecting to get this girl with this great body and have a hard time being intimate with anyone. It's great to talk to others who are in the same boat and from what i hear from guys is bigger is better just hard to believe sometimes.

lbiana

August 8, 2008

Don't be ashamed. Keep your vulva waxed, wear shear panties or no panties; don't wear leggings or pantie hose. My labia may be as big or bigger than yours. I shave because of the erotic feeling i get when i shave in the shower. My boyfirend shaves me and gets both of us aroused. I prefer mini-skirts with no panties or very loose knickers/boy shorts (these arouse me when the fabric rubs my big fat clit and labia, though). Because my hips are bit more wide set, my thinner thighs don't hide my vulva, which, under a mini-skirt, lets me "show-off". when i sit, squat, or bend over.  
Just relax , enjoy what you have and share with men AND women who like to play, suck, lick, stretch (yes!! longer is nicer!!) your lips.

sailor

August 9, 2008

Annie, Annie, Annie and Sarah, Sarah, Sarah. Girls you have it wrong, wrong, wrong. How to explain this to you both. Look if you want to email me you are welcome. I will cut and then send you a reply to a debate I'm having with another man on an entirely different topic. But it will help you to look at this in an entirely different way. I hope.  

In my reply I have tried to explain what sex is like for me. Not intended to be in an erotic sense. More a straight forward way.  

OR. "I could smack you upside the head!" but somehow I don't think that will work.

Rhonda

August 16, 2008

Dear Annie, you may be surprised to hear this but I think an enormous pussy would be exciting and erotic. My husband and I both masturbate to women who have large buldging labia and vulva. The bigger the better, never mind what anyone says about big pussy. It may very well be that they are jelous of you or intimidated by your beautiful long-lipped womanhood. Lucky you and the man who gets to suck your luscious lips. Yummy !

Kemmy

August 20, 2008

Hi!
I'm a 30 year old with big labia. I to feel a bit conscious. Mine go really big and dangle out when i am turned on which is worse!

The best way to make you feel better is to just come out with it to a new potential lover. That you are very conscious about your bits and if you detest girls with big ones then game over.
That way it's done! I'm sure he will say whatever you have i'll be happy with. He may even love big labia!

Thats what i do and it works for me then i have great relxed sex!

slater

August 21, 2008

I am 18 and handsom native boy I'v had plenty of kittens but, my first developed mibora & majora was the best experience I ever had she was a beutyfull 43 year old woman and honestly age dosen't matter at all to a boy go for the younger men just like horney older wemon their greatfull.  there is no shame at all, In my experience an underdeveloped labia/kitten dosent get licked for very long or at all so be proud and flaunt it like you mean it girl

andymac

October 2, 2008

Hi Girls
Let me clear a few things up.

Firstly, the reason that Playboy airbrushed all the beautiful pussies out was because the censor would not pass them. Why is this? Well, it is because a stunning pouting pussy was just too sexy! And when you think of how sexy the models are anyway, isn't that just amazing!

All pussies swell when they are turned on, so you lucky ladies and your partners are blessed, for you look turned on ALL the time! :-)

Being an enormous fan of oral, can I just say how incredible it is to adore pussies such as yours. I can be so much more creative and there is so much more you can do. If you think about it, if you had no lips at all, what the hell could I do? Not a lot, I can tell you.

So heres to all of you, just knowing you are out there makes this a more beautiful and exciting world.

paddy

October 10, 2008

you sound like my perfect woman

RANDY LEGEND,RL-1

March 7, 2009

I've had lots of strange women in my life. One particular girl stands out. She was spanish and had the biggest and hariest pussy i ever saw. The sex was incredible....

Bevern

March 21, 2009

A large swollen pussy is the most magnificent turn on ever. Don't ever let a surgeon near you. There is nothing more exciting. Nature endowed you. All eyes are on you. A feast to behold.

Blckstln

April 8, 2009

Ladies, if a man is really in to satisfying you, he would not be concerned at how large or small you are, but enjoy the pleasure you will provide to each other. I say stay as you are and remember you have the prize. They either respect and accept you as you are or tell them to get to steppin. You are lovely the way you are. Personally, I think it would be a definite "TURN ON."

MILLS

May 21, 2009

Annie,

Your post is somewhat old now but just to say what an immense turn on large inner and outer labia are. The stereotypical designer pussy is just boring. I love bigger pussy lips and adore going down on them and I much prefer an older woman's pussy generally. Don't be embarrassed you will make some one very happy indeed.

andy

October 6, 2009

hi i really wouldnt mind to me i love the thoght of a bulging pussy and you shouldnt let that stop you  having fun because life doesnt last forever

any dude

December 6, 2009

 
UAny dude loves bulging pussy ..we think its sexy
I like it unshaved ....natural to me its a turn on  
When a women humps me with all that pussy meat
I feel like I am being fuked like nature intended
Its like a giant mouth sucking my dick.......it feels
So good! Andi cum like racehorse!

todsmak

December 29, 2009

Large labia... large flower... yum yum yum yum yum yum yum.

Get it?  Got it?  I love my wife's large pussy.  Large lips are a delight!!!!

papa

December 30, 2009

You dont know the treasure you are carrying. gal a big bulging pussy is a turn on! Dont allow a surgeon around you. We men love big bulging stuff

Tokraz2day

February 17, 2010

Listen my wife has small pussy lips and when I do oral on her I suck and pull on her pussy lips for a good hour to the most there getting a little longer somewhat but I would love for her lips to be huge that shit turns me on Women with huge long pussy lips they are awesome NOT freaks of nature...

Doc

November 7, 2010

 Feel free to contact me if you ever want a relationship with a man that will adore both you and your large Labia. It is a complete turnon!!!

Joe

boxhound72

December 2, 2010

If you are embarrassed of your so called "enormous pussy" then maybe I should be embarrassed of my little 6 inch penis. But I'm not and neither should any woman who has who has a large vagina. My wife has the same thing and let me tell you ladies something. There is nothing wrong with you at all. My wife was exactly the same way when we made love our first time. She did'nt want me to see her or touch her down there. Well I did anyway after a little persuasion and when I laid eyes on her vagina for the first time I could'nt help but fall in even more love than I already was. It is absolutely beautiful and so is yours so don't be embarrassed. If anything be proud of what you have. I can only hope that one day you will meet someone who will make you see that you are beautiful. Everywhere!                                                                                                                                                                         David K.

Richardlow

January 10, 2011

Oh Annie ... but what is the size of your labia? I am very exited to imagine that! I invited you on my yahoo group and I really want to do some exchanges with you.

Your Fan,

Rich  

http://groups.yahoo.com/group/richardlow71/

Tim

January 25, 2011

I love a chunky monkey myself....sexy.....nothing wrong with it being bigger.....bigger is better......

seaman

February 16, 2011

i love women with that sized labia!! ur blessed darling....

Alcapone

March 19, 2011

Girl you are blessed,why would you even think about being ashamed of such a lovely,massive,juicy,beautiful,awesome,and a labie and pussie that so many women wish they only dreamed of having such a wonderful Vagina as yours.Please be proud of what you have,you should be laughing for joy,so what if its big and has a big bulge,and big labia.Me personally I would rather have one with a big bulge,big labia,to me when a woman lies down and all you see is that big juicy bulging pussie with those labia lips just waiting for me to kiss them and caress them and then rub that clit till you cry to stop is just the most awesome thing.I love a big bulging pussie when it bulges out in nice levis jeans,especially white pants oh my god I get turned on just seeing that,just to see that bulge I cant take my  eyes off of that,baby be proud of that beautiful pussie its yours and no one elses,shoot I wish it was mine I would take care of it with care.

ALCAPONE

July 14, 2011

Girl if I had a woman with a bulk like that i think i would kiss it caress it,stroke it very gently,penetrate it with love and passion and sometimes just look at it and say wow what a bulk and to think what man wouldnot enjoy iy he would have to be a total fool

Rick

October 5, 2011

I love big vaginal lips and love licking them. I wish I had a girlfriend like some of you. You've got nothing to be negative about. I wouldn't mind seeing some photos of it so I can masturbate looking at that beautiful pussy. I bet you have a big clitoris also which I would suck.

Kana

October 23, 2011

Ladies,
I don't even know how to express in words how sexxy extraordinary large pussy lips are to me. Playboy girls don't do much for me. Long labia protruding out is like omg, I gotta suck that pussy.
Please, do not have surgery to have those lovely lips removed.
Any man who has a problem with your labia is a faggot.

A big bulging pussy with labia hanging out is to me what a big fat cock is to you.
If you can't get somebody to have sex with you, let me know and we'll try to do something about that.
I don't wanna see pictures of it. I want to bury my face and dick in it.
I want to make you proud of your big pussy. I'd be proud to have it.

K

October 23, 2011

Kana,
For some reason, your message intrigued me. How old are you if you don't mind my asking?

HOT in Florida

November 10, 2011

The bigger the better, enjoy them ladies...

Any photos,  like to see how big?

HOT in Florida.

creme

November 30, 2011

Nothing nicer than a buldging pussy, when mine is buldging, i always get out and show her off, What wonderful feeling in a tight pair of demin jeans when the seam spreads my lips an rubs my clit ring. Even nicer under a little skirt with no knickers.. If only all the men who looked at me knew i was soaking wet in underneath !!

frank

March 20, 2012

ladies there is nothing as beautiful as a gorgeous bulging pussy. Some man will be so lucky . SO sensitive and so full lips to play with

MaryAnn

April 14, 2012

This is a rather confusing page and discussion. I just found the page today, and as a large-labia woman I feel a little shocked that this kind of page exists. I mean I seriously had NO IDEA my labia is something "not normal". This page makes me feel like it is not normal. Why? Well, my labia minora is huge and hangs outside a lot, more than on the pictures of this site. But I simply had no idea there was something so strange about it that there needs to be an actual webpage put up just to say "it is normal". I mean I don't think we would need a page saying "ladies, it is ok and normal to have blue eyes". So my conclusion is: there is something about large labia minora that doesn't somehow match the beauty standards. I simply did not know this! (I don't watch porn or anything else which would have given me this information about the actual "standard".) I am not being sarcastic with this message, these are my genuine feelings. It feels like I had just been told that "you know what, girl, the world might be telling you that your middle-long hair is not ok, but it is NORMAL". I never had an idea it would not be...

I wish I could make myself clear about this, sorry if it sounds unclear, for English is my third language...but I'll try hard...

What I am now pondering is:
1. How rare are these really much out hanging labia minora? It must not be "the normal" thing, for if every single woman in the world had something like I have hanging out their thing, this page would not be needed. So I would love to have some statistics: is this only some 10 percent, or half of women or what?
2. Why have those not-out-hanging pussies become the beauty standard? Where does this idea come from? I mean i HAVE known that for example skinny women are the beaty standard in Western countries, and I am not skinny, but it does not bother me a bit. But I think it is sort of "common knowledge" to know that being thin is the standard (no matter if you are trying to achieve it or not). However, as I said, I had NO idea that the not-hanging pussies (which to me now seems are somehow more "normal" or "typical") were a standard! How did you people find this out?! Was it only porn etc.? Or did you discuss this with your friends, did your husband say something, HOW DID YOU FIND OUT YOU WERE NOT SUPPOSED TO LIKE IT? Being a straight female I have not seen other womens genitals so often that I could compare.
3. People say that the non-hanging pussies look like "teenager pussies", and hanging ones look like "real womens" thing or "adult". Does this have some scientific backround: I mean are the hanging things usually something that "develop" after teenage or something? For I am a young person and have ALWAYS had this stuff hanging out, when I was a teenager, too, and I thought it is just something that you either have or don't, like skin color, eye color etc. But in this page I find out that often it is that people have gotten these hanging things in time?

All this is really strange to me, and I hope you can try to explain a bit, please!

grateful

May 21, 2012

Dear MaryAnn,
If you have not done so already, you should make a different post of this. The good news is: you are mentally healthier than many of us!
As to your third question, mine have always been large, just like yours. The ones that merely start developing during puberty (everything grows during puberty...) are never going to reach our size and are more commonplace.
I love knowing that you have never been bothered by the question of large labia before (anf hopefully you will foget this topic soon enough again!). Very uplifting!
Regards,
grateful

Paul

September 24, 2012

Hi Im 41 white man and love to suck on big pussy!!!!!!!!!! they are even better after bing pump up to the max!!! I would love the see some pics and video!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Your freind !!!!!

juicy

September 28, 2012

I am soooooo turned on by all of this big pussy talk! My big pussy is throbbing!!

T.Edward

October 14, 2012

Who wants to venture into salt flats when there are big beautiful mountains and valleys within sight? There is nothing more interesting than a big puffy embarrassing pussy. You girls have such great snatches that it scares you to look at them.
Be not afraid.
My wife was embarrassed by her huge lips so she didn't let me eat her the first couple times we did it. I had to steal her panties as a scrouvenir; only then could I see the tortured cotton crotch that rubbed up against her pussy. When she walks her labia grab a swatch of panty and then tug it too and fro as if to consume it. I've actually seen the fabric wadded up and pulled off of its foundation. The mere thought of her panties is getting me hard, not to mention the rest of the package.

RW

December 19, 2012

All I can say is there is no turn on like that of looking, playing with, sucking and fucking a fat pussy.  My former wife had a pussy  so big I could actually fuck her and cum without even getting in her hole. In other words, I could get about 2" straight into her without reaching her vagina.  Best part was she had a tight hole.  Huge pussy, tight hole, cannot be beat.  Don't even think about cutting those lucious pussy lips.  You will destroy yourself.  Why do you think guys go crazy over camel toe pictures?  Ladies, you are the lucky ones.  Skinny pussys are a turn off for me.  I just wish all you ladies would post pictures with your messages.  My ex-wife could be a horrible bitch, but she had a heavenly pussy.  Made me stay with her 12 years until the pussy just wasn't worth it anymore.  If she would change I'd be back in that big thing in a heart beat!!!  One other thing.  Ladies, don't worry about getting older.  My wife is 60 years old and a better fuck than any 20 something I ever had.  You do get better with age!

shayla

June 14, 2013

I would like what you have to offer if you like girls. I would make you feel welcome. My husband wouldn't mind either...with or without him. My friend (a female) say's we can both make you feel welcome together.

jerrybeerman

October 3, 2013

I have only once had the pleasure of being with a lady whom was well endowed down there and will never forget it for the rest of my life. I had so much fun kissing, licking, and touching her I lost track and had to start all over again, and again, and again. Please do not feel you have to do anything to change the way you are, there are many guys like me that would love to spend some time with you again and again and again. You have a gift that allot of women don't have, enjoy it. Yours if you want.

Timmy.

April 7, 2015

Dont worry about the size of your labia. I for one prefer something a little more meatier, it is more enjoyable for oral sex and looks amazing. Be proud of your bulge and show it off in tight leggings. Guys will love it.

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