NEED A MAN'S OPINION ABOUT MY PLUMP PUSSY LIPS

Hi, Yes, it is right that most of the men love big size lips down there, this is because it is enjoyable while sucking and licking there.  It is just like big nipples are good for suck.  So dont worry and be happy that you got beautiful thing.  

Your bf will love you.

Take care.

Hello Alexandra! I can tell you with utmost certainty that there are many men out there that really do enjoy large, long, or plump lips on a gal, me being one of them. To some, it might be considered a fetish. But for many, they have either no problem with large lips, or genuinely enjoy them.
The fact that you are afraid of letting a guy get close is quite common as well. There are many women out there that have yet to come to be happy with there labia, but you should not be afraid. Confidence is key! It is always great to see a girl be proud of herself, and her body. And if a guy gives you grief about it, then he should get packin.
There is a little community (which is growing rapidly) of girls with labia issues, or ladies that are trying to get happier about themselves, as well as men who love large pussy lips. I am a member, as are many girls who started off just as you.
If you want to know more, send me an email, and I will get you the information. (it is a web community by the way) No porn, no ads, just people talking and sharing about labia, and experiences or problems.

Hope to hear from you!
-Jakob

once and for all...big pussy lips are a huge turn on for normal men, just like big nipples are. As long as you keep yourself clean, ladylike and attractive you will not run into any man that wont thank his luck stars he found a woman with big pussy lips.

the problem occurs when there is some other factor that makes men not like you or say something personally hurtful like "your pussy is ugly"...those much more influencing factors that make mean things like that easy to say are:

you eat too much and do not mind your appearance.
you are selfish
you are rude
you dress like a whore/skank
you only date losers so why should i be nice to you
you sleep around to much so why should i respect you
you gossip too much
you are lazy

those are the things guys think about when they say "your pussy is ugly" because in REAL LIFE no normal guy will ever say anything other than "thanks for giving me some pussy". Trust me, i'm no loser, i'm handsome, tall, have money and an almost 8 inch penis as well as i'm successful in life, so i have had the company of women with all manner of pussy and the few times i've gotten the pleasant surprise (big yummy pussy) i was thanking my luck stars.

Pfffffft "ugly pussy" lol, ladies, if a guy tells you some bologna like that then kindly put your clothes on never go near him again, because he is more than likely not normal in the head and i'll bet if you take a second or two you can find someone like me who is ready to break that pussy into pieces trying to bang it out of the socket if you let him and then is nice enough to call you and maybe even take you shopping or let you hold the keys to the jag for a night out with your girls.

Just remember, it's the other things you need to worry about (see the list)...not your big yummy pussy lips.

i'm 21, i've seen alot of different pussy lips and i think they are all extremely beautiful!
big, small, normal it's all sexy in my opinion. So i don't think it's a fetish.  
If a guy would tell you he doesn't like it you can always tell him his dick is small :)
but the guys that don't like it have a fetish for kids if you ask me.

You should not be afraid to show your large lips. Of course only to the right person and not for the sake of it. But please be assured that it is true. Many men really do prefer it. I think because the Penis Size debate has always dominated, this subject has been eclipsed. I was horrified to learn that some ladies have surgery to reduce them. So dont be worried, be confident, you are still young and perhaps not yet grown to appreciate your body as it will have changed during teenage years. Of course not everyone likes the same thing, hair colour, body shape even skin colour so you really should not feel insecure. Be proud of how you are, the younger you realise this the happier you will feel with yourself. There is nothing wrong with you, your feelings are perfectly sensible and I am certain you will be happy!!!!

Don't worry about the size of your labia. I find it very sexy. When I see labia, no matter the size, I get excited and horny.If a man does not apreciate big labia, there must be something wrong. The thing that I like about big labia, is that I could enjoy sucking it even more.

Alexandra,

As this website says there are men out there that do love large labia's.  There are men that do go through a phase where they like large pussy lips also.  Just like some like blondes or redheads, I prefer women with large pussy lips.  Don't be ashamed be proud!!

Steve

dont try to impress those who dont want to be impressed. find a man here or somewhere else u know that men are tolerable. ive said it before girls usually go for the stud jock frat boy, but the stud jock frat boy is not a tolerable person. having big pussy lips is not a flaw to a sensible man, but if your that paranoid then u should BUILD a relationship with sum 1 who really cares for u because sum 1 who really cares for would never hurt u in the way u are thinking. what works for your friends and other girls your age will obviously not work for u. your path from a to b is like none other, so dont follow others, find your own way.

first thing dont even consider feeling ashamed, i would say you are normal only you are much better than that. your pussy lips should be reviered, im sure any decent guy will relish your shape. its true that porn has fucked up peoples idea of what women should look like but it has become so false now that i think guys realise that true beauty is in the many varied shapes and sizes. you have a one off pussy unique to you cherish and enjoy it.

Hey Alexandra

Would love to chat.   You have found MY fetish for sure.

Ron

Hi Alexandra,

My new lover has large lips and I love it.
My previous lovers have had small lips and never really appreciated my going down on them as much.
She goes wild when I lick & suck, which is a fantastic turn on for me. The more feedback the better!
Love what you have, enjoy what your man does, and all will be fantastic!!!

Here is great poll done for men, just hit see results

www.opinion.com.au/4357_Labia:_what_are_your_preferences_ for_a_partner?.htm

Hi Alexandra,
Don't worry dear girl.  As I am a man of 60 years young and had many lovers before I can tell you, like most men with larger than average size dick, a large labia is a sure comfort during penetration.  The large lips serve as a buffer which give a warm, snug and erotic feeling to the penis.  I sure prefer a larger labia to a thin one, the latter being just an opening with no substance.  So keep clean and feminine and forget about your labia.  It will become your advantage in time to come.  Cheers.

You shouldn't worry about things like that because its not the size of your labia that matters! It is how good of a shag you are! And what makes you a good shag is really liking the person that you are with and them really liking you! Ultimately worrying about something like that is like a guy worrying is my thing to small???? Fretting and wasting time worrying. Do healthy and horny women really care how big a mans **** is? Well, yes, to an extent, I mean it has to do its job of course, and I am sure a guy would be pretty grossed if your vagina lips hung down to your knees or something. trust me I have looked at a lot of porn and most women do have pretty strange pussy and they are all different. One day you will realise that it is those little imperfections and not just down there that make you irresitable. The way you laugh. The way you care. The books you like to read. The things you like to do. If you are with a guy and your PUSSY LIPS make one hoot of a differance to a guy when you are wearing sexy lingeri sexy perfume and a sexy smile then I think you must be with a little pip sqweak boy so don't even worry about it and let me tell you if a guy does say stuff like that or if  a guy disrespects women or just goes around sleeping with women to degrade them they would say something like that so make sure that you REALLY know him and make him WORK for it. Giving it up to soon or frequently is the worst mistake ever and always be happy and have fun with men never take them too seriously because in the end soemtimes it is hard to trust someone especially until they EARN it. Trust me I know that there are some total perfect bitches out there and they are what i said bitches. They probably get a lot of work done and try REALLY hard to look that way too when that is not what matters. Fun times good sex laughing and doing great things is what matters not the way your pussy looks and it does look good as long as you trim it and wash it adn whatever you know dont go jungle  on it but CONFIDENCE and PLEASURE in and out
of the bed is what we gotta have and thats something you can change! If you worried about every little imperfection you have you will not be HAPPY and SMILING. Sorry if I went a little crazy here but it REALLY doesn't matter at all its like we are all different down there and if a man has had more than at least a few partners he would be mature enough to know that the only reason playboy has small pussys is cause its all airbrused to be symetriacal. big lips are just to graphic and realistic you find them in real SEX mags like hustler.

I'm a guy in my 30's, I've seen my share, and it really doesn't matter to me if they're small or big lips. But I will say I've seen more women with big lips than with small, and surprising to me, alot of them were shy about it, as was my wife. But don't worry about it ladies, most men care more about it being clean than lip size. But there are also guys out there who like only small lips, if you run into one of those, don't let it discourage you and make you feel embarassed.

i hate big lips pussy disgusting

Alexandria, you are blessed to have big pussy lips most the men who eat pussy love large labia we love the sensation of having our mouth full of tasty pussy. There is so much you can do with big sexy lips. Not only is there more to suck, there is more fleshy pussy to rub my face into, and when you hover over me 69 style and fuck my face there is such a great feeling because of your big lips. When your lips are long and large you can part them with my nose as you slow grind into my mouth and nose. I only wish we could make love so I could worship your honeypot. Be happy darling girl you are going to find a man who will love the precious gift you offer with you sweet delicious large lip pussy.