You're Inspirational

Mikita

July 15, 2008

For years, I've always thought and been told that my large labia was more like a plague than an extension of beauty. My life was been one big insecurity for a very long time, sometimes it still is, but at least I've managed to find ways to cope. When I was growing up, I was stuck with a belittling mother of whom I never satisfied and a father who only fathered me biologically. My mother used to say "I've had 2 children and I don't even look like that", which made me feel so worthless, insecure, mainly ugly. I used to stare at my labia lips and wish they'd just shrink... I've always been hesitant to sexually interact with the partners I've had over my lifetime, keeping things strictly above the belt, afraid they'd bolt out the door if we went for the full undercover. Initially, I was surfing the net to try and find ways to "cure" myself, maybe find a miraculous gynecologist plastic surgeon or something, then I stumbled upon your site. I was astonished at the title, I was like "what?" then "wow..." and then touched that women could embrace labia as being beautiful, large or not. I guess my low self-esteem had a lot to do with my mother's insults, the untouchable standard of beauty by the media, and my constant dissatisfaction with myself. I just wanted to write this message thanking you for your website as it inspired me and made me feel that much more worthwhile. Beauty truly is in the eye of the beholder and you must possess an extremely beautiful appearance as you do an extraordinary mind. Thank you. My e-mail is enclosed in the message if you'd ever like to share anything.

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lil miss L :)

July 15, 2008

awww wow good on ya girly! youve had to battle through such terrible times, what awefull things to say especially coming from a mother. This site has transformed me too! and i am so happy that u found it u never deserved all that rubbish from your family, and just remember that it really IS rubbish...just read any of the guest letters :D guys LOVE what we have just think of yourself as more woman=more sexy!! yeah!!
biiiiiiggg hugsssssssssss

keep feelin good about yourself x x x x x x x

sailor

July 21, 2008

My dear, you are among friend here. Thank you for sharing your letter with us. I feel your pain, and this is pain you don't need. Just let it go...
Your mother obviously had a problem. A good mother inspires her children. She builds their self esteem. You need to do something to rid yourself of what she has done to you.

Body image stuff is difficult for many people. Having this trip laid on you by a mother is unforgivable.

I'm sure you are a beautiful women. You are inside. You had the courage to speak up here. Good on you. Please feel free to email me if you would like to talk more.

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