Beth
July 2, 2008
Hi,
Im a girl aged 17 and i have large labia and i
have a boyfriend who really wants to go down on me, but im too
embarressed! and im considering having sugery, i mean what if my
boyfriend takes one look and is distusted?
Please help!
xxx
K
July 3, 2008
For much of my life I have been insecure about my body because I was
circumcised. Surgery is the worst thing you can consider...
Have you heard that greenday song with the lyrics...
"all your self doubts are someone elses point of view"
Live this life for yourself, love yourself for who you are and
how you look... Your body is a gift, be proud, enjoy it and share it.
Take care
HairyBiker
July 3, 2008
Hypothetically, lets say you are in you mid forties and with the man of your dreams, would you love him any less when he has started to go bald, and the only hair that is growing is coming out of his nose and ears? What makes us great is our diversity both in mind and appearance, and how we deal with it. If he cant handle you having large labia then what else cant he handle? You going out to work or having a life of your own? It is scary revealing something about yourself, regardless of what it is to your partner because it makes you vulnerable, but that is what relationships are made from, trusting someone to know your vulnerabilities and them sharing with you in return. You have to be who and what you are NOT what others would have you be.
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