September 2, 2005
I can remember as a kid finding one of my friends dads porno mag
collection. As we looked through the pictures, there were comments
made that the size of the womens lips meant she had had sex with many
men. It's easy to see how ignorance and bias are created early on and
carried into adult life. Even now that I'm in my thirtys, I still
hear comments that small, hidden inner lips must mean she's a virgin.
Anyway, I met my wife when she was only 17. She had a small tight body and was absolutly beautiful (still is), and she was a virgin. When we had sex the first time she didn't make any effort to hide her pussy. I immediatly noticed her inner lips were larger than normal, but they also hang open a good bit. Even though she had never had intercorse her pussy had the appearance of being "overused" according to an ignorant male standard.
It didn't bother me at all. As the years have gone by we have enjoyed a great marriage and supercharged sex life. Several years ago I talked her into going to a nude beach. We enjoyed it and started attending several nudist resorts. I have seen more labia than I can count. They're all different! I love to see my beautiful wife laying nude in the sun with her parted lips exposed. Many guys steal glances and have positive reactions to what they see.
Anyway, to all the girls with labia that don't conform to the airbrushed playboy standard, don't worry about it. If a guy chooses not to like you or says something negative about the appearance of your labia, he's not man enough to worry about having. Someday he will probably realise how ignorant he was and know it was his loss.
Yep, thinking that small inner lips equals low mileage is one of the biggest misconceptions about labia size. I'm sure there are old whores that have as good as no inner lips, just like there are young virgin nuns with the biggest butterflies.