Stephanie
December 4, 2007
This really doesnt have anything to do with large or sexy labia. I
need help and I dont know where else to get it. My boyfriend says
that I dont make him feel like I want him sexually. I love having
sex, but he is sick of being the instigator. Ive never had to pursue
a man, they always chased after me and did what they wanted. For the
past 5 years Ive had a great sex life, without any complaints and now
I have one that makes me feel like crap about my sex appeal. Ive
never been the one to make the decisions in the bedroom, now Im
supposed to let go of that, and be assertive. I am not a confident
woman at all. I dont know how to be sexy or feel sexy. I dont feel
comfortable grabbing/playing/touching a penis not even my boyfriends.
He wants me to grab him and just go wild on him, but I dont have the
self esteem for that. Im scared Ill do it wrong, it wont feel good,
or I look stupid. How can I feel better about pursuing my boyfriend?
Anyone's opinion will help.
~Stephanie~
Hairybiker
March 7, 2008
try having a shower and perhaps a shave then dress up in sexy undies and surprise him. or buy one of the adult games for couples and bring it out one night. as for touching his penis, it is something you will have to work on or he will feel neglected or unworthy of you attention, how would you feel if he said he didnt want to touch you? Just be yourself, and at the end of the day you have to be true to yourself or the relationship wont work.
T.B.
March 10, 2008
Let him come home and catch you masturbating. Then, as demure as
possible, ask him to come and make love to you. How could that go
wrong?
My girlfriend has the same problem as you. A
guy wants to be wanted too. It's not that important, after a couple
of years with the same person, to know that you can get laid anytime
you want. Humans, and that includes men like myself, want to know
that they are wanted.
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