Worried About My First Time

Julie

November 21, 2007

Hello!
I am so worried about my first time having sex! I am 19 years old and i have met a guy that I am falling in love with. I always thought i would die a virgin because I knew i would never feel comfortable with a guy seeing my very large labia. I really dont want to let him slip away because i am too scared to show him. I know he is not a virgin and he has seen many vaginas so i am worried about what he will think when he sees mine. I really really like this guy and it kills me to think about him being horrified or grossed out with my labia. o, i also read that having large labia can result from having a lot of sex. If he ever sees my labia, is he going to think i've slept around a lot?
Thanks
Julie

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Matt

February 23, 2008

Julie,

Relax. If you are in love with this guy and he is in love with you, things will be JUST FINE! Take your time and savor each phase and every step building to making love. It is perfectly natural for you, as a virgin, to be somewhat self-conscious. If you guys take your time and go slow, it will be just fine! -- Especially, once you get into each other's style and preferences. He is NOT going to think you have slept around alot because he KNOWS who you are!

:-)

Matt

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