August 17, 2007
Wow, what a great site. I just tripped upon it while doing my own
research and I can tell you this is a bit of an epiphany for me. I am
a man, so let me explain myself.
For years I have felt self-conscious about not being circumcised. I have no physical need to be circumcised. In fact everything works just great. But I have this nagging thought that most women prefer guys who are circumcised. This is in spite of the fact that most, actually all the women I've been with say they don t care. Yet the feeling persist. It's like I don't believe them. They re just being kind or sensitive to my emotions on the subject.
I have research the whole issue around circumcision for some time and I can say with great certainty that from a sexual functionality standpoint it is better NOT to be a circumcised male. Recent research supports this. Sex and masturbation is better intact.
So ladies, if you have a self esteem issue around having large labia. Listen to me. And please believe me when I tell you, men love your labia. My girlfriend has full lips. And GOD do I ever love them. She does not have any issue with her body, which is great. I love going down on her. I love having all of her in my mouth. Honestly. So please don't change your body because you think men like a trimmed look. That's just media bullshit.
I guess we can all be a little fragile from a sexual standpoint. But I now see the beauty of natural sex. It's the intimacy of the sexual act that really turns me on. As an uncircumcised male my glans is covered most of the time. It is uncovered for washing, masturbation and by my women. Often sex is exquisite when I penetrate her and her labium retracts my foreskin. Ahh, now you get the idea.
If your lover doesn't like your labia, you need a better lover.
I think I'll keep my foreskin, now please keep your labia intact.