training male lesbians
July 1, 2007
here is a guide for couples and men i am working on, I wondered if it
is accurate for you the reader and your friends. Any
suggestions would be welcome.
Evolving Sex a guide for men
and couples
by virginmind
For women's emotional mind never say sex,
always replace the spoken word sex with love making. Start by
thinking of women as energy-mind-emotion and every thought a person
thinks creates in the world. Slow down your thoughts until you are
aware of all the thinking being done below the waking alpha
wavelength. Slowing down your toughts is easily accomplished by
having what you intake into your body being only food and water.
Caffine and other things that stimulate would be taken at never
or at most 12 hours before intimacy is desired. Meditation is the
best teacher of the incredible and peaceful nature of the quiet
mind. There are bio-feedback machines which are inexpensive and have
been sold on the web, by such authors as Deepak Chopra. Slowing the
mind is also done with just the mind thinking about what does each
word I am thinking mean to me. (All) means _____, (women) ________,
(are)______, (virgin) _______, (lesbian)_____, (love)_____,
(entities)_______ . Then evolve the mind by think of the highest
possible meaning for each word, think relaxed and slowly above the
head of your body, spend as much as 30 seconds on each word.
Thinking of all women as virgin, lesbian, love
entities wearing clothing that represent to the woman her emotional
coverings. Sex for a woman is 98% about her mind-emotion. And every
time a woman is being sexual as the first time she has been with you
or a man. Just removing a womans clothing would be done over about an
hour or so by just allowing her to increase her interest and
sexuallity though not touching her, but finding ways to tease her
with your energy and her thinking you might join with her and may not
join with her. When you actually do touch her clothing do so gently,
over the clothing as if you are touching her intimate emotions, these
layers of clothing are her protection from the world, treat the
clothing as if it is a layer of emotional skin that she will remove
herself as she feels safe and protected enough to be with the man or
woman she is becoming intimate with. If the man feels arousal
just give that energy to the woman, if you feel loving intimate
emotions share those with your partner by surrounding her with those
emotions and allow your self to be peaceful and quite enough to feel
how she is actually talking to you though her emotions. Allow
yourself as you feel guided by peacefulness to communicate
acceptance, confidence and completeness and seeing the divine
God/Goddess in yourself and her, to your partner.
A
different way to start a woman's interest is a short bike ride. A 10
minute or so bike ride and a woman could orgasm. If a woman has a ten
speed racing bike with the seat tipped up a bit, if she rides with
the tip pressing on her vagina opening gentlely. It is possible to
orgasm this way. Have the seat high enough that she can ride
comfortably standing up on the pedals. For this guide though limit
your bike ride to 3 minutes or less because this guide is about
sensitivity to a woman's emotions.
If at all possible
consider starting love making with any woman with her clothing on,
even if you have her get dressed for the occasion in a complete
outfit she finds sexy. You might be surprised to find out what the
woman finds sexy, because it with depend on the time of day and how
she is feeling about her self and the relationship or even other
people. Sometimes feeling sexy for a woman might be a pair of
worn jeans and a certain shirt with her favorite underwear. At other
times when she is ovulating and feeling full of energy and
confidence, she may find a silky black dress sexy. At these times if
you know any kind of ballroom or swing dance at least dance some with
her in the living room. The start of forplay for the woman is waking
up in the morning and every time she talks too or thinks of her
partner. Foreplay for a woman is often better than sex, unless
the sex is tantra love making which is not really about sexual
positions, but seeing the divine God/Goddess in both people and the
world and allowing the intimacy of life to be enjoyed in the
relationship.
After spending quality time with her on
a short bike ride and walking back to the home, you would probably
sit and talking which will lead into to her talking with her emotions
only, it will seem different for the man, because she is being
verbally quiet, but communicating soooo much with her emotions. At
this time it is helpful for the man to just not talk and think of the
woman as being about 3 years old and move her body slowly and
gently into a laying down on her side position, communicating that it
is safe and confident to her to allow herself to be guided by the
mans touch. Now just lay behind the woman in the spoon position, but
not touching her. Women are mostly aroused by thinking that something
may happen and may not. Basically any time a man is perceived as he
could do something more sexual, but won't, it is more arousing for
the woman.
Breath on the woman neck from about 2-3
inches away from her neck ever so gently and just wait for everything
to feel just right. And take breaks to stop what you are doing and
just rest or nap until you feel right about trying to be guided by
the woman's energy-emotion again. Focus on how the energy feels
peaceful if it is other than peaceful take another break to return to
the peaceful guided state.
From here on it is just
repeating peaceful guided by the woman's energy-emotion making what
comes to a mans peaceful mind feel just right to be doing. Think of I
could but I won't and being very subtle with what a man is doing then
just rest waiting to be guided by feelings of what is correct and in
a natural flow and done next. Everything done by the man is always
peaceful and very slow.
For a woman's emotional health
think of her as a virgin lesbian and a man not entering her vagina is
the healthiest for the woman emotionally. Women are never to be
masturbated in, or feel used. Women tend to like the male energy and
force of this energy before clothing are removed or hands move on her
body, but when the clothing starts coming off of the woman think of
the man as a lesbian making love to another woman in a gentle, soft,
slow way. The best for a woman is if a man touches a woman as a
lesbian would, so a man would shift his thinking when he is going to
undress or touch a woman to thinking of himself as a lesbian would is
spending loving time with his partner. If either person wants,
you can get a fake plastic vagina at the sex store to move his penis
in above the woman's pubic hair or for her to place under her body,
this is much nicer emotionally for most sex other than tantra,
because tantra sex is slow and connecting emotionally, where often
you feel the other persons emotions.
If orgasm
together is desired, that can be done by the woman laying on her
back, eyes closed. The woman would hold the vibrator 1/2" below and
1/2" to the side of her clitoris for about 3 minutes, with as few
thoughts as possible. The man would be on his knees with his legs
under the woman's. The mans penis would be unmoving below the
vibrator outside the woman's vagina. The man and woman are completely
still silent for about 3 minutes or more and the man just feels the
energy, he may orgasm while the woman orgasms. A womans orgasm is
almost always peaceful, the only thing that might be noticable other
than energy by a man is her sometimes contracting. When a woman does
anything else she is usually acting. If a woman has had a baby
through her birth cannel the vagina usually stays large enough for a
hand to enter her and her clittoris may not ever be senitive enough
for vibrater use again. Because when a baby goes through the birth
cannel the baby seems to be as large as a watermellon. And ruptures
the opening muscles of the vagina. The clittoral nerves may be
pinched between the bones of the pelvis as the pelvis bones comes
back together after natural childbirth. For this very reason, here we
recomend C- section births , to all women able to conceive.
Conception is the reason for arousal.
Until the woman is
mentally and emotionally aroused enough to want to get her vibrator
it is helpful if the woman imagines the mans penis in the flaccid
state with all of his penis energy returning to his spine and up to
his heart center and every ten minutes the energy in his heart center
would expand up to about 3 inches above his head, this is much like
an orgasm for a man while he peaceful. If the woman is doing this
foreplay will usually be long enough, slow enough and gentle enough
for the woman and man, to enjoy connecting with love and the source
of all life
When considering a woman's emotion health it is
best never to actually enter her with a mans finger or penis more
than 1/4 inch slowly. If anything more is desired it is best to learn
Tantra ( www.tantra.com), which is much more than sexual positions.
Tantra is about making love with the divine God/Goddess in yourself,
your partner and the world.
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