May 21, 2007
This is a message to all those women who are concerned with their
labia, mostly when they believe they are "too" large. It seems true
that female genitalia does vary individually more than the male
counter parts. Perhaps that's just because the female genitals are
far more complex, and contain more parts. But in any case, it is the
man who must learn this fact and accept this most beautiful part of a
women's anatomy, whatever its form.
My exwife had, what I now realize, a somewhat larger than average inner labia, and a nice clit to go with it. Because of some quack religious beliefs which we held, oral sex was off limits and in 30 years of marriage we only enjoyed this exquisite pleasure once.
My advise to women: get a mirror and look at your beautiful sex; accept it in the same way you accept your legs, your posture, or your ears and hair. It is simply YOU. Tease your partner with it; move it, touch it, play with it and invite him/her to do the same. It will be a great source of joy and pleasure for you, just as it IS.